A Heartfelt Farewell for a Lifetime of Service
Director of Spiritual Formation Ellen Kogstad is Retiring
More than 45 years ago, when Ellen Kogstad saw young moms with babies who did not have a place to live in her Humboldt Park neighborhood, she was disturbed. How can a young person, let alone one who is caring for a baby, start off adulthood and build a stable life for themselves and their child when they are just trying to find a place to sleep each night?
Ellen was a regular volunteer at St. Mary of Nazareth Hospital and The Salvation Army Booth Memorial Hospital, where she often visited young moms who didn’t have family or support systems, so she knew the problem was pervasive. Ellen was moved to do what she thought was the only reasonable, moral response she could think of: She began distributing diapers and baby formula out of the trunk of her car to the young moms she saw in the community. Wanting to do more, Ellen thought she could build relationships with the young moms and link them to needed resources and find shelters – but she quickly discovered that wasn’t the case, because in the early 1980s, Chicago didn’t have much of a homeless services system.
Ellen shared: “As an outreach worker at my church, I was able to see the gaps in not only our part of the city, but beyond. There were some service options for unhoused people, but most shelters did not want babies or children.”
Of course, you can imagine how the story goes from here. What started as a simple act became the realization that the housing and services for young moms and their children were missing in the community – and that was really what Ellen needed to help create. So, she did. On Sept. 12,1983 New Moms was incorporated as a nonprofit organization in the State of Illinois with Ellen Kogstad as its first Executive Director.

Ellen went on to recruit friends and family in her church denomination and other churches to support the mission of New Moms. By the mid-80s, New Moms was providing housing and support services for young moms and their children who lived at their transitional living program in Humboldt Park. New Moms continued to grow, serving more families, and raising more funds to enable the work each year afterward.
Ellen provided leadership not just at New Moms but also around the state focused on this special population. She served as a member of the Illinois Caucus on Teenage Pregnancy and chaired the committee on Homelessness, ensuring that young moms who experience the impacts of poverty had resources dedicated and designed for them.
In April 1992, Ellen resigned from New Moms as she and her family moved out of state. New Moms continued to grow and Ellen continued her career as a spiritual director. She returned to Illinois and eventually was the co-founder of the Center for Spiritual Direction at North Park Theological Seminary. In 2008, then CEO Audalee McLoughlin brought Ellen back on staff in a unique part-time role as New Moms Director of Spiritual Formation. For the last 17 years, Ellen has faithfully served in this role, supporting staff and participants through optional spiritual formation activities.

“At Audalee’s invitation, we crafted a role that would bring the gifts of spiritual formation and spiritual direction into the nonprofit world. That is still a rare combination. When Laura Zumdahl became CEO, she too wanted to see our young moms and our staff grow in faith and be touched by the love of God. These 17 years have been a gift of a lifetime. I am so grateful to have served under these brilliant women.”
Ellen has served faithfully at New Moms for two-thirds of its 42-year existence, in multiple roles. It’s a special and unique individual who can birth an idea, let it grow, set it free to grow under others leadership without ego, while deeply engaging in other ways that fit their emerging gifts. Ellen demonstrates a beautiful example of seizing the moment presented to her to take action about a problem in a simple way. Today, as a result of that first step, literally thousands of others have been motivated to join her in that mission, and over the last four-plus decades, thousands of young families’ lives have been changed.
On Sept. 30, Ellen is retiring for the second and final time from New Moms. We will miss her deep commitment and love for the young moms and children in our program and her calm, approachable demeanor that welcomes everyone.
We wish her deep blessings in her next chapter of retirement and know she’ll forever be part of our story at New Moms.
With gratitude,

Laura Zumdahl, Ph.D.
President & CEO